Beyonddeities step brother's body was found today after going missing, early New Years day.
As much as i know it ACTUALLY means very little, she needs as much love and support as she can get at the moment.
Thanks guys.

Thank you for telling us...

World sucks.

There is one semi-nicety in all this(as much as it can be considered such), which is that in '06 one of my best friends also went missing. It took three weeks to find him.... so Nina is not alone in that respect.

To be completely clear, too, Nina is in Cyprus at the moment and is going to England in the next few days. She wont be home til the 18th if plans don't change.

Were she and her step-brother close?

next to me, he was her guy....... And had been for 5-6 years as far as i can tell... I've only known her (in real life) for 6 months.

Damn...

Hope she continues to visit DDD, this place has helped me many times...

I'm sure she will.... Its a great escape, without having to escape people... Whcih sometimes is all you need

And besides, we're human beings. We care, we accept, we reach out a helping hand. It sounds lame and overly melodramatic, but is not also true?

To be honest Yngtchie, fuck that.
If i were in this position, i'd get a bunch of horrifically faux pas jokes thrown at me by all and sundry outside of you vocalists.... Which, believe me, i appreciate.
But it still stands to reason that most people here are, at heart, cunts.

Possibly. I dunno, I guess I just want to find the good in people when shit like this occurs. You probably wouldn't want to be around me when something like this happens. When my best friend's dad died, we talked about life and the loss of parents for about ten-fifteen minutes, then I think I made a Leon Black quote to lighten the mood a little, and we spent the rest of the day discussing the value of early Tony MacAlpine records. That's how I'd want things to be. My father doesn't have many years left in him, but I know that when the time comes, I don't wanna dwell on it with others for too long. I just want things to go back to normal, and handle the sad stuff on my own.

But that's me. I'm a selfish sonovabitch.

I was introduced to Cem when I was 7, and I'm 18 now, he 19. We fought a lot as kids because he would always outwit and outinsult me, but in the past few years we've mellowed out and gotten a lot closer. I respected him a lot even though he made some lousy decisions, could be a bit of a thrill seeker. A lot of that was squashed when he found out about his heart condition, which meant he had to quit gymnastics, rock-climbing, soccer, basketball.... I think that fucked him out a lot.
In last 2 months or so he's changed hugely... he suffered from anxiety and his uni grades weren't great so he went through a big spiritual shift, went vegetarian, all wise and shit... still liked to smirk and laugh at me, but I know it's cuz deep down we always had love and mutual respect for one another. What's happened is still not all 'real' to me but I know when I come back I will have to face it.

Thanks for the kind words and well wishes, I will take them all and use them. Jest you're a lovely boyfriend, ignoring the yelling at parents and kids obscene propositions.

Its a situation that has illustrated just how much of a bunch of picky-choosy wankers this forum is infested with. A hot chick is worth the effort, even though her partner is a guy you couldn't give two squirts of piss if his mother died.... Eh.. I partially jest, in as much as i don't ACTUALLY care... but still. My dam for holding back how inanely fucked up this place is towards me, arbitrarily(or possible, by tradition.. either way, s'bullshit) was just about to burst, i'm sorry.

I think thats a very noble way to be. It would certainly be helpful to me, personally. 99% of people either dwell, or make such a big deal out of these things it becomes all-encompassing and you just don't want to be around them anymore

I know how you feel. I have forums where I get a lot of shit thrown at me for all kinds of absurd reasons, and where any best wishes would be of the fake variety. You know the kind, the biggest asshole suddenly gets all: "I will pray for you, Andreas"

Fuck your prayers. If there's anything I can't stand, it's insincere comments, an empty gesture that means jack shit to the person giving it, aside from making himself look better, being the better man. I don't buy it, and I don't say it unless I mean it. I see it all the time in various forums. Someone's aunt dies, the guy asks for mojo and prayers. I remain silent because I don't wanna act like I care when I don't. One sincere condolence sure beats fifty bullshit ones.

Meh, now it looks like I'm trying to out-bitter you or something.


I think a lot of people are like that, but I just wanna be left alone. Kinda like with breakups. "Yngtchie is in a relationship. It's complicated. Yngtchie is now single and miserable."

Fuck that and a packet of crisps.

It is true.


I agree with this too, this is how I felt when my father died 7 months ago.

I remember that time, you still managed to devote your time here to divert your mind Wanted ......

You're a gem , as are a lot of people here, and some real assholes.....so it's a perfectly balanced world